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So I’m sure everyone at one point in their lives have wondered whether the person they like likes them and it isn’t just an unrequited thing. Goodness, I’ve been there too, staying up all night wondering if my crush feels the same way too. So this article is all about saving you the sleepless night and unnecessary stress. 

HE IS NOT PAYING  ATTENTION TO YOU: I personally think if a guy likes you he’d pay attention to you. Not just to your looks but also what you’re saying. He remembers little things you said even when you thought he wasn’t paying attention and I think there’s nothing as good as giving someone your rapt attention, putting everything else aside to just talk to that special someone. If he’s just not into you, he won’t appreciate your presence. You could be in a room with him and some of your friends and he’s not paying any attention to you. Not talking to you, not even stealing glances at you. Another thing that is quite annoying and speak volume is if he can’t put his phone aside to talk to you. He’s literally texting someone else in your presence, not paying attention to what you’re saying just nodding and frequently saying “oh”, or “that’s nice”.

  Except if he told you he doesn’t have time to talk, don’t waste your time talking to him. It can be very annoying and you’re left wondering what’s wrong. He’s just not that into you.

  HE IS NOT FINDING A WAY TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOU- I find it annoying when a guy I like doesn’t call or text me as much as I want. Now I know he didn’t because he just wasn’t into me. So if you figure out that you are the one always initiating the conversation with a guy, always bringing up something to talk about. Chances are he’s not into you. You can relax for a while, give him space to chat you up, move the conversation forward. If this doesn’t happen then he probably wasn’t interested and that’s not bad, just move on. My biggest pet peeves is late replies. I hate chatting someone up only for you to reply late and when I mean late thirty minutes to an hour. The most annoying one is if he has been online since. I get he has a life asides you but if he can’t tell you that he wouldn’t be able to reply your messages for a while or apologize for doing so and not doing it again. He’s just not into you. Late replies are a total conversation killer and let’s not get started with the “ok”, “oh cool” replies. If he’s not spicing the conversation in anyway and initiating one he probably isn’t interested. And you’re probably thinking, what if he doesn’t like texting. I get that some people don’t like texting, but that doesn’t mean they won’t like calling.

Is he calling you? Is he ignoring your calls when you do without any explanations and not calling back? I think you already know the answer to this by now. If he’s constantly ignoring you or making you feel like a bother for reaching out. Back off a little, he might not be the one.

   IF HE DOESN’T WANT TO SEE YOU- I don’t know who likes someone and doesn’t look forward to seeing them or wanting to spend time with them. I know I do, he should too. That’s the main idea behind a date right? To hang out with the person and know each other more. If he’s not wanting to see you, even as little as a stroll around he isn’t interested. The worst part is if you initiate a meet up and he stands you up, doesn’t pick up your calls or texts. No response whatsoever, no explanation, no apologies and goes on for days or weeks before texting you or probably never texts you again. Babe, that’s a clear indication of his feelings, he’s not interested in you. I personally don’t think you should take that from someone, just saying.

  HE IS NOT  TELLING YOU: Another way to know if he likes you is if he says he does although he could still lie about it but at least he’s telling you. If a guy is really interested in you he’d tell you because he wants you to know, to consider him in your heart. I mean is there a way you could like something and not say it? There’s just this urge to express your feelings on what you like even if it’s down to a cake. Another way to know is if he’s not complimenting you, I know some will still give excuses like I don’t know how to compliment people or you’re saying he could compliment you and not have feelings for you. Yes that happens but he’s appreciating something about you. 

If he likes you he’d find every means to tell you because he doesn’t want you to forget that. He’ll compliment you every chance he gets, is it the thing he likes about you, your appearance or down to the bracelet you’re wearing. He’d just really appreciate the little things about you that you don’t even realize.

  HE IS NOT CARING: If he doesn’t care about you he probably doesn’t like you. They say actions speak louder than words. It’s not only about telling you, is he acting it? Is he treating you right? Is he there for you when you want him to? Is he going out of his way to make you happy? Is he getting you things to show you he cares? Is he disrespecting you? There are various ways you can know if he cares and if he’s acting like he doesn’t, he probably doesn’t. 

And there might still be cases when he does everything and still doesn’t like you. But I hope I’ve been able to help you out in a way.

   Remember, no one is worth your time if they don’t make you feel like you’re not worth theirs. And don’t forget, don’t lower your standards for any man, if he’s really interested in you he’d work hard to meet them and if he doesn’t. He’s just not that into you.

 Let me know how you know that he’s not interested in you. 

So I’m sure everyone at one point in their lives have wondered whether the person they like likes them and it isn’t just an unrequited thing. Goodness, I’ve been there too, staying up all night wondering if my crush feels the same way too. So this article is all about saving you the sleepless night and unnecessary stress.

  • HE’S NOT PAYING ATTENTION TO YOU: I personally think if a guy likes you he’d pay attention to you. Not just to your looks but also what you’re saying. He remembers little things you said even when you thought he wasn’t paying attention and I think there’s nothing as good as giving someone your rapt attention, putting everything else aside to just talk to that special someone. If he’s just not into you, he won’t appreciate your presence. You could be in a room with him and some of your friends and he’s not paying any attention to you. Not talking to you, not even stealing glances at you. Another thing that is quite annoying and speak volume is if he can’t put his phone aside to talk to you. He’s literally texting someone else in your presence, not paying attention to what you’re saying just nodding and frequently saying”oh”, or “that’s nice”. Except if he told you he doesn’t have time to talk, don’t waste your time talking to him. It can be very annoying and you’re left wondering what’s wrong. He’s just not that into you.

  • HE’S NOT FINDING A WAY TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOU- I find it annoying when a guy I like doesn’t call or text me as much as I want. Now I know he didn’t because he just wasn’t into me. So if you figure out that you are the one always initiating the conversation with a guy, always bringing up something to talk about. Chances are he’s not into you. You can relax for a while, give him space to chat you up, move the conversation forward. If this doesn’t happen then he probably wasn’t interested and that’s not bad, just move on.

  • My biggest pet peeves is late replies. I hate chatting someone up only for you to reply late and when I mean late thirty minutes to an hour. The most annoying one is if he has been online since. I get he has a life asides you but if he can’t tell you that he wouldn’t be able to reply your messages for a while or apologize for doing so and not doing it again. He’s just not into you. Late replies are a total conversation killer and let’s not get started with the “ok”, “oh cool” replies. If he’s not spicing the conversation in anyway and initiating one he probably isn’t interested. And you’re probably thinking, what if he doesn’t like texting. I get that some people don’t like texting, but that doesn’t mean they won’t like calling. Is he calling you? Is he ignoring your calls when you do without any explanations and not calling back? I think you already know the answer to this by now. If he’s constantly ignoring you or making you feel like a bother for reaching out. Back off a little, he might not be the one.

  • IF HE DOESN’T WANT TO SEE YOU- I don’t know who likes someone and doesn’t look forward to seeing them or wanting to spend time with them. I know I do, he should too. That’s the main idea behind a date right? To hang out with the person and know each other more. If he’s not wanting to see you, even as little as a stroll around he isn’t interested. The worst part is if you initiate a meet up and he stands you up, doesn’t pick up your calls or texts. No response whatsoever, no explanation, no apologies and goes on for days or weeks before texting you or probably never texts you again. Babe, that’s a clear indication of his feelings, he’s not interested in you. I personally don’t think you should take that from someone, just saying.

  • HE’S NOT TELLING YOU: Another way to know if he likes you is if he says he does although he could still like about it but at least he’s telling you. If a guy is really interested in you he’d tell you because he wants you to know, to consider him in your heart. I mean is there a way you could like something and not say it? There’s just this urge to express your feelings on what you like even if it’s down to a cake. Another way to know is if he’s not complimenting you, I know some will still give excuses like I don’t know how to compliment people or you’re saying he could compliment you and not have feelings for you. Yes that happens but he’s appreciating something about you. So recently I posted a picture of me, it was really amazing and all, a lot of people told me it was. My crush didn’t only for him to reply with “what’s this?” What a major slap to my face. If he likes you he’d find every means to tell you because he doesn’t want you to forget that. He’ll compliment you every chance he gets, is it the thing he likes about you, your appearance or down to the bracelet you’re wearing. He’d just really appreciate the little things about you that you do.

  • HE’S NOT CARING- If he doesn’t care about you he probably doesn’t like you. They say actions speak louder than words. It’s not only about telling you, is he acting it? Is he treating you right? Is he there for you when you want him to? Is he going out of his way to make you happy? Is he getting you things to show you he cares? Is he disrespecting you? There are various ways you can know if he cares and if he’s acting like he doesn’t, he probably doesn’t.
    And there might still be cases when he does everything and still doesn’t like you. But I hope I’ve been able to help you out in a way. Remember, no one is worth your time if they don’t make you feel like you’re not worth theirs. And don’t forget, don’t lower your standards for any man, if he’s really interested in you he’d work hard to meet them and if he doesn’t. He’s just not that into you.

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